So, here's how I see my piecing "list" as of today as it ahs been altered due to health problems, the accident, and above mentioned items.

1 - Complete recognition and dismisal of all issues relating to the breakdown by both of us in the M. COMPLETE

2 - (x)W to demonstrate and assure OM is completely out of her mind in all regards. COMPLETE

EDIT 2a - (x)W to sever all ties to OM - COMPLETE

3 - (x)W to accept responsibility for A and be 100% without question regretful, remorseful and apologetic. COMPLETE

4 - Me to fully accept and forgive (x)W for the A. COMPLETE

5 - Assurance to each other and our children that this is going to work and be comfortable - COMPLETE

6 - In light of accident involving my truck, secure transportation - COMPLETE (as of this morning she had her truck delivered)

7 - Obtain a residence of our own to restart life as a family. IN PROGRESS

8 - Re-Marriage grin . PENDING

9 - 3rd child. PENDING

10 - Full acceptance by friends and family on all accords that we are happy and responsible for our own faults and our R and M is our own problem. IN DUE TIME

Last edited by dday101798; 02/05/10 04:10 PM.

Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11