Originally Posted By: mindfull
Rob. I'm in the middle of some of your advice... Getting a pedicure. Just tanned! My God! I look 10 lbs thinner!

You sound good!


Never mind me, check out how you ended that reply:

"...My God! I look 10 lbs thinner! "

That to me sounds like someone who is experiencing a self-esteem boost and that is definitely a step in the right direction: you feel good and guess who made you feel good? YOU! And that's what it takes. Internal validation. Nothing wrong with some external validation (Lord knows I enjoy it) but internal validation is where it's at, it gives you that world beater attitude, the kind of confidence that is very charismatic and it's very attractive. Keep it up!!!