I think i took a good first step just now.

My ex was supposed to text massage me last night to let me know if her dad was coming to pick up D3 or if I'm supposed to drop her off. It's almost time for the pickup and I still havent heard from her.

So I sent her a text message asking her what the deal was and who was picking up D3. The message didnt get delivered because her phone is off.

So that made me mad. I then set a boundary in a second message. I told her that I can see that her phone is off and when she leaves me hanging like that and I'm not able to get in touch wih her I feel disrespected. I told her i have things to do today and what if there was an emergency that I need to get ahold of her about D3. I said if she isnt more considerate in the future then I will not be obligated to be either.

Of course I then got a message just now from her fathers girlfriend saying everything went fine with the teeth extraction and that my ex will likely sleep all day. I asked her if she was home yet and if I was supposed to drop off D3 and she said no she isnt home yet and that her dad will be getting D3.



Me - 32
EX - 26
D - 3

BOMB: 11/02/09
EA/PA confirmed 1/29/10

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