Hi Talia - I'm not sure if this link will come through:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1928539

If not go to search and type in "Boundaries" in Subject as a search word..it pulled it right up for me though I'm not sure how to cut and paste the link (not the most tech savvy wink

Good luck w the L this weekend! When I came out yesterday I felt much better knowing that I've covered my bases and less likely to have regrets about keeping anything on the table. He also just educated me about the process so I knew what to expect, no surprises, and I have him as needed. You know what your rights are..it was empowering.