Oh, Pup, the other item I might also like to expand on is exposure, a long while back you made a great post outlining three levels of exposure theory
1. Expose only to cheating spouse 2. Expose only to close friends and family 3. Expose to anyone who may influence an end to the affair
That is a branch of divorcebusting technique. Note I am referring to divorcebusting as a general marriage saving activity, not necessarily an activity that would entail strict adherence to Davis approaches.
So, we could use a different term for it, but I like divorcebusting for now...
Actually, most of this stuff is much more aggressive than MWD advises. Out of respect for her, as our hostess, I don't think it would be appropriate to flesh out whole theories here that contradict some of her teachings. I do post from my own perspective, advocating what has worked for me and what I have seen work for others, but I try to be respectful of the differences in philosophies.
