Seeking sorry for your pain THis is a tough road to walk thr crises takes a long time it is not your fault..it is something in them that creates the crises The ow is just an escape temporary from the pain and depression the Mlcer gets worse before better the pain that cause the spouse and children creates guilt in them they are on their road and cant turn back we let them go we learn to validate them practice being cordial and gal getting on with your life watch the finances though they spend like mad the ow likes H to spend make sure your name is off all his personal credit cards see a L jsut to get facts..to prorwct yourself many H here go in debt mine ;lost everything.. and would have taken me and kids down with him if I wasnt watching they are NOT the SAME H and fathers they were
kep posting peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
