My W called yesterday to talk about an email I sent her the other day. Basically I am trying to keep conversations to email only, give her a list of things that need to be done, give her the list of things I am going to do. Rather than simply reply to my emails, she has to call. I dont get it. Then she ask me how im doing and trys to chit chat. The past week has been hell for me. Moved my stuff out of the house over the weekend, one of the hardest things Ive had to do, then Ive been thinking about the signs I may have missed over the years that my W may in fact have a mental disorder. Several people have said this, including a family member on her side. Ive been beating myself up wondering if I missed the signs or just didnt want to see them. Could I have convinced her to get help or is it not something that can be helped (ive read it only gets worse). I sort of feel sorry for her, she is already starting to act a bit reckless/irresponsible. I know I cant save/help her, she doesnt want help, especially from me. I wish I can just flip a switch and feel like I did last week, sheesh. The emotional roller coaster continues to roll...
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D talk-7/28/09 W Moved out-9/01/09 W wants D-9/22/09 W doesnt want D-12/1/09 W Moved in/I Moved out-12/21/09 W wants D-1/19/10 D Final-04/15/10
brkn.......I know what you mean! My H I feel bad for, real bad at times because of what his life has become. His severe depression, poor choices, have robbed him of his life. He isn't a man anyone knows anymore. In ways I feel bad but in ways I don't. Tired of the pity party from him. Not too mention he knows the difference bettween right and wrong.
