I have bought and read all books mentioned on the boards about affairs. Not Just friends, My husband's affair..., healing after infidelity, etc etc. The problem is they are all in English. He cant read them. He tried once but it was too difficult for him to understand. The only one I have in Greek is The Monogamy Myth, the translation is not that good and I dont like it.
I was hoping the C will help him with opening up as well. That and time and feeling secure again to do so.
He obviously does want you - I just am not sure if that is because you make him feel safe or because he wants his M. Only time will tell.
I dont understand that. Both options dont sound good to me. What do you mean making him feel safe or because he wants the M? Shouldn't he feel both and love me on top of that?