I don't have advice, except maybe you should reassure him a bit as well. Let him know again that you love him and want to be with him. As you said he is ashamed, and letting him know you still want to be with him, is important. Show him your soft side, like you are doing by going to the show. Show him you are still a woman that enjoys his company.
I would love to have my husband come to me and do everything H is doing for you. He is being open, honest, telling you exactly where he is at all times so you know he isn't with OW. He is trying to reassure you, and if it is extremely hard for him to share his emotion, he even did that. He seems like he wants this to work so I understand being cautious and not settling for less than you want, but look at the steps he is making and encourage him so he will take more.
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