Getting Un"Stuck" - Giving My Burden to God

[25yearsmlc]

I think my W and her boss have a casual working relationship. Although I know he's probably still flirting with her. What an @$$. To this day she denies tha

It would not be the only time a woman has a friendship with a man, that did NOT turn into sex. I'll get some big 2 x 4s for this but let me remind those you who are unfamiliar with law firms or the military or corporate worlds, there are men & women working around each other and we are NOT all on the edge of our seat waiting for an A to happen. ON the contrary, we are usually trying to impress or fit with senior management, and in the military, especially when fired upon, we're very focussed on the mission and staying alive.

True it is a drag for HER, now that the cat is out of the bag and she says she was crushing on him...it's an issue that may work iteslf out. Did he respond in kind? No, sounds as if he din't...and her boss IS inappropriate for continuing it-[u]makes you wonder who started what but that does NOT MATTER...please Stuck, note this if nothing else,

Your w and you will never, EVER agree on how you got here or why. Just figure out if you can agree on where you are and where to go.... I'm too tired to post more now but will get back to you soon if I can.
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wo'tt it was one of the reasons for her wanting to leave, even though when all this madness started, she told me it was for him. Crazy I tell you. I think on some level she really believed he was her soulmate and now she's "lost" without anyone. HELLO! Try looking at what you have.

She does contradict herself when it comes to us. She told me before how she was afraid of being in the same room with me, yet we can go out with the kids no problem.

In regards to the going out together, I think she believes she's doing it strictly for the kids. And that this helps her relationship with them. Not me. If anything, the focus has to be taken off of the kids and back onto me. A part of me believes that it isn't going to happen until she goes out with someone else and can compare me with them.

Today she called me several times at work to find out if she could pick up our D from school. I just let them all go to VM.

Thanks sandi for commenting. Don't worry if there's nothing to say. Just knowing others are here even if it's for a prayer or two is appreciated.

When you came out of your "fog" and decided to stay in your M, it was your choice. That's what she has to get to and right now she really doesn't want the M or anything else for that matter.