She would know I would go out with different people, but she wouldn't really show any reaction to it. Even when we do the "family" thing, she seems like an empty shell.
I guess it's like what you felt and how 25mlc's H felt when you were in the middle of your problems. Just so I know, what problems was I in the middle of? I mean, our M and his mlc were the issues we had at that time. I got depressed for a few months about 18 yrs ago when My dad died but our M wasn't affected. In fact I got pretty great support then...so I'm lost on that issue. ..OR are you talking about the "ORAS=Obsessing Regarding Alien Spew" I did before AND during the time h was leaving? That? maybe you're confusing me with someone else? OR is it that I finally had enough, AFTER HIS MLC began & that something in me chose to snap out of it and I GAL, detached, etc?[/i] Is that it?? B/C you seem like that to me.
It's fine either way, but I am trying to be clear on what you are summarizing so I know what you mean and I can be a better help... Now ---I'll keep catching up on your thread but so far, GOOD WORK Stuck, geez.... j-
The thing is, there came a point where you realized that something was wrong and decided to do something about it. Right now, my W is stuck in her world.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016