[quote=stuck808]Thanks Sandi.

She would know I would go out with different people, but she wouldn't really show any reaction to it. Even when we do the "family" thing, she seems like an empty shell.

I guess it's like what you felt and how 25mlc's H felt when you were in the middle of your problems.
Just so I know, what problems was I in the middle of? I mean, our M and his mlc were the issues we had at that time. I got depressed for a few months about 18 yrs ago when My dad died but our M wasn't affected. In fact I got pretty great support then...so I'm lost on that issue.
..OR are you talking about the "ORAS=Obsessing Regarding Alien Spew" I did before AND during the time h was leaving? That? maybe you're confusing me with someone else? OR is it that I finally had enough, AFTER HIS MLC began & that something in me chose to snap out of it and I GAL, detached, etc?[/i] Is that it?? B/C you seem like that to me.

It's fine either way, but I am trying to be clear on what you are summarizing so I know what you mean and I can be a better help...
Now ---I'll keep catching up on your thread but so far, GOOD WORK Stuck, geez....
j-

The thing is, there came a point where you realized that something was wrong and decided to do something about it. Right now, my W is stuck in her world.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change