Thanks guys. I am merely paraphrasing Tuppy, Glass, Davis, Spring, Harley, and others... I think it was Einstein who said "if I see far it is because I stand on the shoulders of giants"
I really am just paraphrasing a collection of professional references...
I would like to expand on both of these approaches in a follow up when I have the time... offer a checklist of how to implement both. Pup I would be further intrested in hearing what other approaches are reccomended... Tuppy actually reccomends immediate cutoff of ALL contact from the abandoned spouse... move OUT of your home and end all contact with your cheating spouse until they end their affair, for example...
