Originally Posted By: hhh
but I often feel more balanced out there and it's where I ultimately wanted to settle down, eventually.
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The day I told my boss about my impending D he bought me a spa day at a hotel


There's the hard decision - leave and get the mountains and fresh(er) air, make the memories of great times with your H memories to cherish, but lose the boss that gives free days at the spa~

I'm just a guy, but any time a boss gives gifts like that, you know you're in good company regardless of where you go!

God willing, you will enjoy the excitement of something new and fresh, regardless of where it takes you, hhh, with or without your H.