Just want my H back

[25yearsmlc]

Aver-
never fully responded to you. I plan to move back to SF (where I am from) mid-March. I have a ton of my oldest friends there (we're talking preschool, grade, high school) plus college and work. Huge support network. Yoga/bay area/zen lifestyle which is really more me (i've always thought of holistic health in the future). Company just opened office there too...so makes sense. In my head I know it's right thing to do. But I am still letting go/sorta sad about leaving east coast, but KNOW it's the right call, which is reassuring. When I was home for Xmas I was set up 3 times, so at least I feel like there might be prospects out there! I've been joking w GF's...where oh where is my next OM (when I'm ready...) perhaps under Pier 39, Ghiradelli square..who knows.. but I often feel more balanced out there and it's where I ultimately wanted to settle down, eventually.

Whenever I get sad about current sitch I try to replace those thoughts w excitement about SF. I've already committed to cooking and dance classes w friends there, and signed up to volunteer on a refugee committee. I'll deal w the work changes once I'm out there to see if I can try something less-travel, but same company and they've been great to me throughout this process (knowing what I'm going through). The day I told my boss about my impending D he bought me a spa day at a hotel...so I feel very fortunate to have such loyal company/colleagues (more loyal than H for sure!)

Aver - are you thinking of moving out of your house? Moving locations. Where do you live again? In my travels I'd love to visit you at some point..

Good luck on what you are dealing w. My lawyer session was empowering and glad I went but sitch a little different than others given laws here, assets we each have (separately) etc. However I came out feeling very glad I went, and I have as backup if needed.

(((Aver))))
-hhh

GREAT GAL STUFF!! WAY TO GO!! shoot, I'm jealous. I LOVE SF!!

Good work, really.
J-