As a Mom, I can tell you, his W will NOT want any kind of issues brought up in front of son and grand son. We tend to insulate our kids... nurture, not expose.
I get G's concern, though... Stay glued to S24, though!
Good thinking on the going out of town on Monday. I like that.
Let her settle into your home, pretty much, without you there to make it "whole" right away. Let her miss the life, she supposedly misses, upon re-entrance.
Last edited by mindfull; 02/05/1003:28 AM.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.