Wife wants best of both worlds

[MHL]

DW,
Good to hear from you. I am sorry that your W is moving ahead with the introduction of the OM. I know that has been on your mind for weeks. I would insist on some counseling on how to best handle this for the kids. I know I would insist on knowing more about him and his past and that at no time that the children be left in his care. He did not care about their well being when he was having an affair with your wife and just b/c he is with her now does not mean that all of a sudden he cares about them now.

Stating the obvious, but your kids will always have you and will remember how well you handled yourself during this time. You are a great father and even your W knows that the OM will never even begin to measure up to you as a man of strength and honor. She is fooling herself and it will hit her one day, and then she will feel the coldness of your absense.

Keep on posting, as I said I am still coming down for beer and pizza!! I usually see Kemper now about once a week, I'll let him know your status, he has taken a break from the board for a while but still lurks. Catch ya in the alt.