CL, "I have to go on what I know." YES buddy you are the one that has to live with your actions. I totaly understand..
Seems to me though that OM might be trying to turn W aginst you with his "I don't want to play" attatude. But you also have no control over what W does so lets hope she see through this like his Name calling he did in the past..
BUT in my I REPEAT MY opinion the side affect of your E mail
"My W spoke with him today, and told me that he never wants to see me again, and is never coming back"
IS GREAT
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know