TTA, listen to Talia. You need to back way off and use the time to work on yourself. It is pointless thinking about spending time with H or doing X, Y, or Z to make him see the light. Use this alone time to figure out what truly makes TTA happy and what would the best possible TTA look like.

Get your own apartment. Pick out a place that YOU like. Make it feel like YOUR home. Signing a lease does not close the door on H, it's just a lease. Even if H wants to reconcile tomorrow it would not be wise to jump right back into things. This time for yourself is an opportunity that not everyone gets, use it wisely.

If you love somebody, set them free.
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