I do know I said the exact same thing you said in your post this week: I would not have gone out on a second date with a guy who acts the way my H does now. A startling revelation, but I'm still hoping for a turnaround


rr22, I hear you. IT's funny how I was given "chances" to change without knowing they were chances. Now I feel I am giving W chances to change and I'm not seeing anything.

I know we lack communication and I know my faults. It does take two to communicate and I feel she isn't taking responsibility for her faults.

I get along great with her family. Her Dad friended me on facebook this week but I haven't decided if I want to have him on my list. - Any thoughts on this???

I did remove her cousins today from my friends list.

She removed my sisters after she dropped the bomb.

My oldest girl will start school in the fall and that will change our situation again.
I think it will benfit me b/c W works second shift.


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