Well I will put it this way stuck, I tried all of the methods on this site to try to get my wife back but nothing worked. She has a mother and a step dad who are therapists so I think the deck was stacked against me. So, take my advice for what it is, an outsider looking in. I did not save my marriage but I see more hope in most everyones sitch than my own. I think if your wife is starting to warm up you should be nice, maybe even friendly, but NOT pursuing in any way. Might be good for you to even take a call from your lady friend with your wife within earshot.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final