It's good that your are looking inwards and accepting your parts in the failure of the marriage. Remember that she had a part too.
Are you taking care of yourself? It's so crucial right now. You need to eat, drink lots of water, and get exercise.
Originally Posted By: wired
Much hurt as I think my daughters are now lost to me. I think my son still has a bit of faith/hope that Dad can turn things around.(Not in the marriage, but in his and mine relationship)
Focus on today, not the future. You are their father forever. Be the best father you can TODAY. It's good that you are accessing your past failures, but use them to improve who you are now. They will respect you for it.
Originally Posted By: wired
After the talk with the kids, W and I sitting at table talking about things
What things are you talking about? You need to get busy with your own life now. I know how hard it is. What you need to be doing is figuring out what Wired wants out of life, want Wired needs to do to be a better man and better father. You should be too busy to be having talks about things right now. The first steps are the hardest. I started with taking walks.
Originally Posted By: wired
What if I am doing the wrong thing? What if doing a 180 and waiting for her to come around is taken as he doesnt love me and I will still go on with this.
This is your fear. Fear will paralyze you. You need to read more threads here! Everyone asks this question. Time is on your side, but you need to take some action for yourself. Small steps are good.
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