I understand where you're coming from. I'm feeling like giving up now due to my H's continuing odd behavior. I also feel unrecognized for my positive changes. I also just want out from under the stress of this situation. My IC said last week that it had been and would continue to be hard on me to watch my H fall apart. Maybe that is part of what you are going through with your frustration with what you call your wife's "mopeyness". I do know I said the exact same thing you said in your post this week: I would not have gone out on a second date with a guy who acts the way my H does now. A startling revelation, but I'm still hoping for a turnaround. Especially since it's out of character for him. Maybe it will be for your wife too. When she goes for counseling, it's not a quick process, however. Not to discourage you. Just for a dose of reality. Maybe some of your anger is coming out now too. By the way, I got my bomb this summer. So our timeline is similar.
