Dont forget to work on becoming the best man and husband.

Some great books are:

Hold on to your N.U.T.s

For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women

Most importantly, you need to be happy with just yourself for now. Detach. GAL. PMA.

Your W could probably be classified as MLC and I think that you may be better served it you started a thread in the MLC forum. There are some really good posters there that could help you greatly.