Running out of time.

[Cie la vie]

DW,

If she comes around she comes around. You need to move on like there is no chance of reconciliation.

Completely agree with both statements. The second sentence is the key. I want to get to the point where that is a reality not just a desire. When I get to that point I feel I will have truly detached. I'm not there yet.

I still think about what she is doing and with who. I find myself tyring to think what she is thinking and I know it is counterproductive. It is so damn hard not to think like this but I recognize how it negatively impacts my ability to move on and detach. Each small bit of progress can be quickly negated by a comment or event (mediation session) etc.

I do know I have made strides but I'm not where I need to be yet. I appreciate the encouragement.