Oh no I wont act on it or say anything Gardner. Emotions were definately high in that post.
I called my family and talked to them about the same time I wrote it. While I'm not any less hurt/angry...I am calmer.
My stance on my sitch changes from moment to moment...so telling her "I give up" and then changing my mind tomorrow doesnt help me one bit. It's as bad as my boundary of not wanting anything to do with her othjer than D3 talk if she moved on with OM and then a few days later after she does it, offering up my solution for us to both be happy by hanging out together.
Along with that, unless and until she does show any interest in that solution, I'm not calling or texting her unless something's wrong with D3.
She told me the other day she needed some time to think about my solution to our problem. I would be willing to bet my bottom dollar that if she is giving any sincere thought to it, she's just itching for me to pressure her about it so she can punish me again like a bad child. "I was going to say ok but you keep pressuring me so forget it".
Thanks for offering feedback though Gardner...and thanks for caring.
I would appreciate it if anyone else who is reading this and has dealt with or has knowledge of child custody issues would take a look at my two previous posts and offer up some suggestions.
