Dday, do you think it's to late for me to Dbust my D? It has been over 14 months now since the separation?
Did you read my post about my relatives who were apart for years before they remarried, or are you taking a poll?
not to be snotty , but I wrote a LOT and I think you are wallowing too much. Come on now, Snap out of it. You are justifying your depression by skimming over his behavior the past 14 months and his behavior while M, whenever he was depressed, so the times he was good to you are the only thing you focus on and the description YOU give of the R you two had, sounds very co-dependent. You would be sick or have surgery and he'd take care of you b/c he was afraid of being alone, and then you'd reassure him and boost his low self esteem, and blah blah blah. NOT healthy!
Just think a bit on that and TRY TO visualize yourself without him in the future, BUT STILL HAPPY....what does that look like? Be detailed & specific, please. j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
