well, don't rely on people "knowing". your just going to have to ask. perhaps there is something that you can do in return for their help that is easy for you and not for them. Or maybe you can find a moms day out at a church,
also, tell me her sleeping habits, perhaps you can change that. I also remember how she is sick all the time. Have you ever thought about removing milk or wheat from her diet? I have a hunch that she is allergic.
Her sleeping habits? Its probably my own fault and something I never did with my other kids. I let her sleep in bed with me and she is waking up maybe 5-8 times a night. She is still comfort nursing (ok, guys dont throw up ) I just cannot let her scream and cry. I sometimes start out putting her to sleep in her own bed, but within an hour she is awake again. So its the same whether in my bed or her own. When exh left I had to do what I needed to get by and now she isn't a great sleeper. She naps maybe an hour during the day. Like I said before, things have been really different with her. I enjoy the closeness when she is sleeping with me and frankly its easier to have her there if she is going to wake up rather than putting miles up and down my hallway all night.
Her sickness is mostly colds. I find that she is in a childcare at MOPS or the gym she ends up with a cold a few days later.
I am not a great sleeper either. Even when she is sleeping I find myself up alot anway....so not sure if my lack of sleep is from her.
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) I just cannot let her scream and cry. I sometimes start out putting her to sleep in her own bed, but within an hour she is awake again. So its the same whether in my bed or her own. When exh left I had to do what I needed to get by and now she isn't a great sleeper. She naps maybe an hour during the day. Like I said before, things have been really different with her. I enjoy the closeness when she is sleeping with me and frankly its easier to have her there if she is going to wake up rather than putting miles up and down my hallway all night. 
