When my L met for negotiations with my W and her L during the court status meeting. I was left alone in the hall waiting. When my L came out to ask me a question regarding the negotiations, he said the similar sentiment that your L said to you about your W.
And today, I get a call from my XW at the dentist telling me that our daughter was x-rayed with 4 cavities. Who does she blame? Even though XW had terrible cavity problems herself as a child and I only have 3 cavities in my 50 years, I still get the blame because I let the kids have an occasional candy or soda.
You and I are both better off without these space aliens from the planet bitch in our lives!