Wife wants best of both worlds

[Cie la vie]

DW,

I do not think she was really that interested...hard to tell.

My W was emphatic about her decision and working on the marriage wasn't an option. That was her attitude immediately following the filing. I haven't gone near the subject since my initial pleading phase (a few attempts over a few weeks).

In the research I have done, people typically do not move out unless someone is waiting for them.

I'm not surprised. My W initially was involved and I believe still is with OM1 who lives 2000 miles away, however, she has introduced OM2 to the game and he is local. My W moved out a week ago this last Tuesday and OM2 was invited over for dinner the following Friday. She wasted no time furthering that relationship. Served herself up to him on a silver plater. Shocking! She is also unemployed and has a monthly nut in the neighborhood of 5K!

All these facts were gleamed from her texted messages on her phone. Those days are gone now.

Well, it finally happened. Got the email today that the W wants to intro the OM to the kids...next hurdle.

Great. This is a major concern of mine right now, the W and I agreed in mediation that the children can't be exposed to others until it is determined to be serious. What is the criteria for that and who decides? That hurdle isn't a fun one. Good luck on that one DW. Looks like I'll be eyeing that soon as well.