avermont, I totally get how you feel. I am not at the settlement stage yet BUT I have no intention of leaving the house we built. I drew the floorplan, worked with the contractors and designed the interior. It took us 9 years from the time we bought the property to the time we moved in. OUR dreams for OUR family. In addition to those reasons for wanting my house, OW may have stolen my H but I will not let her have my life as well! This is where my life is now and it will stay here til I choose differently. Same as my feelings about wanting my H back. I love him, the future we planned is still before us, our family is better off together and it is just a bonus that OW will lose him.
AND I suggest you buy some new sheets and pillows and reclaim YOUR bed. Clear his energy out of there! Burning a sage stick around the walls...well, google it.
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
