My 'goals': - kids grow up happy and able to control their anger - I find a sense of peace where I'm not wondering, "why are we M when I can't properly love and respect you always" when we talk - I am supported and understood, that the jobs of living are not just saddled on me like jobs, but rather as shared responsibilites that have been agreed on - Some excitement from my W in life - A social life outside of home, but with my W - Not blind trust...but complete trust - Knowing that if I couldn't work, that my W has enough skills to meet her/our basic needs
Is this still a selfish list? Looking at it, being alone for a couple weeks/month might help me know better what I can accept and give to my M. But it seems so drastic to move out...
