hey BBJ, I don't want to be right. I just read and the read and sometimes read between the lines. In your case, you never hid the fact that you did not want your marriage to end.....so today's event (he signed and apparently has a lawyer) hurts. I am sorry BBJ. We are not there with you but I do not remember reading anything that would lead me to believe that Dan did anything to intimate that he was going to try to make it work.. Ok there was that one week when he seemed to be coming around and then that infamous e-mail...

You will be ok BBJ....just detach (drop the rope)....get some space between you and Dan....this has gone on long enough...

I will say it one more time, you deserve better and I am pulling for you.