Just read OB's thread. Is encouraging, but assures me I'm not past the first step yet.
I'm going to reread it, with a pen in hand to note specific things that directly apply to my own sitch. Make a few adjustments to flow chart I'm creating.
Still feeling a lot of anger. However I'm begining to feel a 'That's the way it is, take it or leave it' attitude setting in.
Is that a good thing at this point, or just the confusion and anger I have been feeling?