Hi again, undefeated! Wow, your list of DBimg strategies is awesome!!! Very impressive and not to sound "age-ist" but I can't believe you are only 24! I was soooo immature then!
I wanted to comment about you worrying that you are "annoying" him with your short phone calls...that is the goal, my friend! He is annoyed because he wants to chat and you are busy! It shows him that you aren't in need of dropping everything for him (especially while he is having this A!) and he will miss you.
Maybe he didn't call you last night because he's doing "tit for tat" but do not call him first...he'll call you!
question for you--why not ask your mom to open the envelope and see what's inside?
If it is D papers, don't bring it up to H. Prepare to say "I don't want the divorce. I'm committed to us." and then when he talks or protests, say "I understand that you feel that way. I need to go though. "
BTW good job working on letting go of caring if the dishwasher is loaded a different way than you do it! My WH is so anal and it caused me to not want to even bother if he complained about stuff like that!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004