Only YOU know what you can and will take. Each of us handles our sitches different.
I know they say we cannot make our spouses leave /forget or whatever the OM or OW. They need to make that decision otherwise they will always have that "What if" stuck in their head. BUT
"I have one concern that I want to address with him, where I feel that he is being disrespectful towards me. I would prefer not to go into detail about it."
BUT FOR ME… Like I said you have different ways of handling things than me but FOR ME.. I would draw the line at the OM EVER coming within 100 ft of our home. That alone to ME is disrespectful.
But you are the one that knows your sitch and have been allot steadier and have moved allot farther ahead than I...
Stay strong… I don’t know how you do it. If my W OM had the nerve to show up in our town... (He lives in Washington State). He’d be going home without his testacies
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
