If I didn't have two little ones my decisions might be different.
I missed that part. Not overall important, but none the less a key factor.
I have personally learned and will continue to preach, the day you truly become the WAS is the day things will see dramamtic changes.
Reality is, you are not in this long enough to be at that point, or there's other factors that you're not telling us that make it so.
Your W's moping? All par for the course and on target with the WAS handbook. If you continue to tread along as I'm about to tell you, I guarentee, but warn you as I have in my prior post, you will get a reaction out of your W, what you chose to do with it is yours. Point is, yes checking yourself out of the M is perhaps the best thing you can do for you to end the pain and confusion for you and do things you need to do for you, just question "how far should I really go with this?".
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
