CLV, stay the course and keep your head up...you are doing great!! I understand the need for R discussion but do not do it. The discussion will likely get serious and you do not want that (for them it starts the roller coaster, which is bad).
I will say this until the cows come home but do not argue ever (keep things light), do not imply guilt-this will drive her away further, and be confident and patient. If she comes around she comes around. You need to move on like there is no chance of reconciliation. This does not mean giving up hope. Be the better person. Be the better parent. Live a better life. In essence you are making yourself into a gift that no woman could turn down (at least that is how I view it).
