Now he's sending "When can I pick it up?"

We've had this conversation since November. My things are still in the house. I feel like I have to cut all ties and move my things. And that requires me asking and arranging everything with him, and arranging the moving itself, and everything it entails. I am really dragging it.

And I don't want to go into the mail discussion again.

Can anyone tell me what my problem is?