Oh, what a bummer: all his mail that I signed with "Incorrect address" and put to a letter box has returned to me!
There are no markings that post office has received and sent it again. All the letters look weathered now.
Maybe I'll try to remove the stickers with my address or black it out. I just don't get it. If they saw my address there they must have seen "Incorrect address" too. Why send it to an incorrect address?
I just want his mail gone already. Can I throw it away? I don't want his mail to be my problem anymore.
Hi Whole, I saw your thread lock before I could answer you earlier. Thanks for stopping by and letting me know where your new "home" is.
Originally Posted By: Wholeagain
I just want his mail gone already. Can I throw it away? I don't want his mail to be my problem anymore.
Something is only a problem if it bothers you. Since his mail doesn't bother him, why should it you? You've notified him several times about this and he doesn't care. I wouldn't suggest throwing them away, instead make some space next to the garbage in the kitchen and keep them there for a while -- its the right thing to do.
We've had this conversation since November. My things are still in the house. I feel like I have to cut all ties and move my things. And that requires me asking and arranging everything with him, and arranging the moving itself, and everything it entails. I am really dragging it.
And I don't want to go into the mail discussion again.
1. I am not in a good place emotionally. I don't want to react or feel hurt anymore. I really wish I could not care anymore, but it is not happening.
2. Power struggle. I don't want to do something just because he said so or go out of my way.
3. I wish I could say "I'll bring your mail over when I'm moving the rest of my things", but I am not in a good place right now to go and do it. Let alone it's not going to be easier to arrange it with him than picking up the mail.
