CityGirl and everyone else who has taken the time to give of themselves to help your thoroughly self-absorbed self should be heeded. Obeyed. Taken on faith if nothing else.
For you from my post to gman last night:
How's that working out for you? Do what works! Drop what doesn't!
Counterintuitive!
"If you always do what you've always done, you'll always get what you've always gotten."
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac