Oh I agree with both of you, thank you. I realized immediately afterward that I don't need to do what I did. I like the idea of playing with s, (although that's usually waht I do and end up doing all the "work") but I like jokingly including dad, I'll try it next time. And maybe next time I don't have to apologize. I tend to apologize too much in general. I just wanted to show good will. If he was spinning in his head like "there she goes again, she hasn't changed, etc" I wanted to show I realized and I was taking accountability for myself.
Yea, I am going to accept it about him for now. It's the least of our problems! And such a good night.
Well I'm off to bake and cook - wish me luck on a lovely dinner...
