Clv, I think things may appear grim but and will turn out that way if that is what you expect. Reconciliation is always possible, I think we have to leave ourselves open to it if that is truly what we want. I also think it is possible to lovingly detatch without deciding it is over. While D is looming and there does not seem to be anyway to slow it down, don't throw in the towel just yet, remember no matter how dark it gets don't give up.
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
