Robx, thanks for the thoughts. my problem is that I just dont want to let go. Its difficult. I read your thoughts on Luv thread.. I am going to stop persuing. I guess gotta go cold turkey completely. Its a behaviour that I am not used to.. It hurts badly......
My W asked me last night if I would be willing to go out for dinner with her friend and husband later in the month? I said Im not sure... I left it at that. Her friend is someone I know a long time too, and has no idea we are going through this. A part of me tells me that I should just say no.. The other part wants to go and show that I can have a good time regardless of whats going on..
Agree with her, tell her yes. She's asking you out for dinner with her and another friend, go enjoy a meal, are you dieting? Agree with her, be happy about everything, don't mope and become anti-social.