CityGirl...I will see what searches yield for those books. Are there any keywords I should be targeting? (eg. "personal growth")
My ex just called and at first was very angry with me. Apparently she tried calling several times today and my cell phone didnt ring. It didnt help that my house phone line was busy from being online. She used that as an excuse to take a jab at me about being on the computer (one of her reasons for leaving) saying "I tried calling the house phone but it was busy...imagine that."
I was able to validate though. I told her I could see how that would make her feel frustrated. I said that it wasnt intentional and my phone hadnt rang until this time that she called (at which time I also got a text message saying "HELLO???"). It did the same thing last night when my family called twice and it never rang just showed voicemails.
She said I was so lucky because very shortly she would have showed up at the house here. I find myself figuratively beating my head at the wall at her reaction to not begin able to get in touch with me and yet thinking I was a creep/a-hole for reacting the same way to not being able to get in touch with her Friday night.
At any rate she told me she wanted to talk to D3. Before she did she told me that her dad could only get off work for an hour tomorrow and so her sister would be driving her to her dentist appt but that her dad would likely be coming to get D3 in the morning. I volunteered to drop D3 off at her Dad's house as an alternative. (I'm not really sure I want to see him anyway.) She said she would text me later and let me know.