There are MANY *really* good books you should be reading for YOU. Instead you chose to read a book that may give you insight to your W and her affair.
And FWIW, my H has been with his affair for two years. He recently admitted to me that divorce was not the answer, he now has the same issues with OW as he had with me so clearly it was HIM and not ME and their R is getting very rocky. BUT he decided to stay with her anyhow. So, yes, the book is about right but it doesn't mean a damn thing either way.
Do some research on the forum and choose a few books that will force you to focus on YOUR work only.
