Gardener,If stbxw's L knew you were represented by a L when he sent you ANY communication, that a likely violation of the Bar rules. One time might be a mistake. But it better not happen again.
My L never mentioned this yesterday. Maybe he let it slide because she looked like she as all of one month out of law school and was woefully outgunned yesterday.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac