Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

Rocked - thanks again and you just described my thought process over the years to a tee (being accepting, easy going, not rocking the boat, etc)...that has been me for our entire M. I too wish I had seen in sooner and like you said, this in no way excuses my W's EA nor how she handled our sitch as it was going down the drain. I am still hurt/angry about all that, but I need to recognize my shortcomings and you have helped me a lot with that over the past couple of months. You and I seem to be awfully similar, I so appreciate being able to get your views/experience b/c I think we are pretty similar in many aspects.

There has been a ton of emotion from D8 over the dog (D3 doesn't seem to really grasp/understand)...but IF (and I have no expectations) emotions will get to her, she is seeing plenty of it. D8 couldn't go to sleep last night, we took turns heading upstairs to talk/console her (hey isn't that a nice change...I didn't have to do it all) and it was probably 2 or more hours before she was ever able to fall asleep because she was so upset and crying.

(((Hugs))) back at you.