I guess I have to get my "balls out of my W purse" as Robx puts it...
Thxs Robx for scripting that out so good. I find that I need to be careful as to what and how I say it so that I dont come accross as controlling.

Puppy, thank you for that... I see that clearer now..

I try so hard to make things right, and now I must do it for me and my 3 kids..... DBing is tough!.. but has to happen as I have seen from the posts, and see that it works.
I am also afraid that I may turn me away and not want her back.

We are still living together and sleeping in the same bed..
How effective will be Dbing be?

M 43 W 43
S15 S 12 D 10
ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009)
Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010.
Sep as of 07/14/2010
W moving out 07/31/2010
No OM confirmed ( yet)