I just cannot deal with this day any longer. I got a msg from MIL to call her when I had a chance, that was at 8 this morning. Just called and she wants to know if I have been talking to Dan's grandpa.
Apparently he is VERY angry at HER and won't talk to her and she thinks it has something to do with ME?
Wtf. The batchitt doesn't fall far from the tree...
She wants to know if I have been talking to Grandpa, I said yes I talked to him at Christmas time, he called and visited. She asked if I told him anything about Dan and I being separated, I said no but I didn't think it should be considered a secret anyway because it is the way things are...
She said she tries not to give them details about things because she doesn't want to upset them. I told her they should be upset at Dan anyway, not her, but I didn't have any idea why he was mad and she would have to figure it out herself.
She said, Well he won't even talk to me. I said, that is too bad....
GEEZ....wtf people. I cannot control the world! I have been talking to Uncle Bob, Dan's uncle and Grandpa's son, MIL's brother. He tells me all the time I am his favorite niece over Dan's two sisters...and he cannot stand MIL even though she is his sister.
I never told Bob about the affairs but I DID tell him Dan moved out last January. I am not going to sling mud but I am not going to lie about things, either...he probably told his dad (Grandpa) and now Grandpa is mad bc I bet MIL has been lying to him this whole time and acting like we are still together. Not my problem!