We have all been there and it is extemely overwhelming to know that your life as you knew it is now shattered right before your eyes.
Because of that and already processing everything, the people here do know what they are talking about even though it may seem like it goes against everything you want to do...
You have Puppy here - There is no better in my opinion (and no offense to anyone else cause I love you all)...He may say things you don't agree with however he does indeed know what he is talking about.
If Coach, Gardener, Cutter, Trent, Rob, Sandy etc...comes - Follow their advice as well...
Read different sitches on the board and you will see they are all pretty much the same just different names and dates.
It sucks period however now you need to take care of you and your children.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~